{"id":18422,"date":"2013-05-16T08:15:39","date_gmt":"2013-05-16T13:15:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/?p=18422"},"modified":"2013-05-16T08:15:39","modified_gmt":"2013-05-16T13:15:39","slug":"mother-of-all-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/mother-of-all-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"The Mother of All Social Media"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have no problem admitting that I\u2019m a huge fan (and addict) of Facebook. I often post my status, and upload pictures. Yes, I admit it, I absolutely love checking in daily (ok, multiple times a day). While there are a fair share of annoying posts out there, and some days it feels like there are more links and quotes than actual updates, the site has become a source of connection, reunions and even breaking news\u2026 all very important and welcome distractions throughout my day.<\/p>\n<p>This past Sunday, there were countless Mother\u2019s Day-related posts. The pictures of pregnant friends or first time moms, took me back to my own first Mother\u2019s Day. The expressions of affection by mothers of young children describing how motherhood has changed their lives was something I related to throughout the day.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-18424\" title=\"mom3\" src=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"384\" height=\"265\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom3.jpg 640w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom3.jpg?resize=375,259 375w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom3.jpg?resize=240,166 240w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom3.jpg?resize=50,35 50w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom3.jpg?resize=600,414 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 384px) 100vw, 384px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I loved seeing the pictures of breakfasts in bed, fancy brunches and handmade cards with heartfelt sentiments (and misspellings) from the little ones. It felt good to know that so many women were being spoiled and adored that day. It was a treat to see mothers of old friends whom I haven\u2019t seen in decades. The pictures capturing generations of mothers and children in families were priceless. It\u2019s amazing how, on Mother\u2019s Day, everyone seems to age so gracefully on Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>I loved reading posts by men I know who were far more sentimental and emotional online than in person, especially when it comes to acknowledging the most important women in their lives. I found their public declarations of love to be romantic.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-18425\" title=\"mom2\" src=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"384\" height=\"374\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg 640w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg?resize=375,366 375w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg?resize=50,50 50w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg?resize=32,32 32w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg?resize=48,48 48w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg?resize=185,180 185w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom2.jpg?resize=600,585 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 384px) 100vw, 384px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What got to me throughout the day were the posts by those who have lost their moms, all too early in life. I respected the fact that these grown children wanted us all to know how very much their moms are still missed, appreciated and loved. I hope that the day held many moments of vivid and happy memories for them. It also made me once again realize the importance of expressing love now, in any way you choose, as opposed to waiting. My heart ached when I thought of the women I know who are desperate to experience motherhood and are trying to overcome the various obstacles in their way. The day certainly could not be an easy one for them.\u00a0 I prayed for them and resolved, once again, to never take this miraculous blessing for granted.<\/p>\n<p>In a way, Facebook has taken the place of greeting cards. It allows you to express your feelings and personalize your sentiments with photos and then shout it from your laptop for the Facebook world to read. It might not be as personal, but in it\u2019s own way, I find the public statements of love to be heartwarming.<\/p>\n<p>My kids are way too young to have their own accounts and my own mother is still holding out on joining the FB Revolution. So, on Mother\u2019s Day, I took the old fashioned route of telling them and showing them what it means to have them in my life.<br \/>\nIf they were on FB, my status would\u2019ve read:<\/p>\n<p>To my beautiful, selfless, outgoing, hysterical and loving mother: I\u2019m honored to be lucky enough to call you my mom. You\u2019ve taught me what unconditional love is, how to express it and you inspire me to be the best mother I can be. I would be lost without you.<\/p>\n<p>To my amazing little girls:\u00a0 thank you for allowing me the privilege of experiencing motherhood, the greatest gift of my life. Your generous hearts and spirits amaze me daily and I can\u2019t imagine the world without you in it. I wish that one day, you are also blessed to experience motherhood for yourselves.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-18426\" title=\"mom1\" src=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"384\" height=\"348\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom1.jpg 640w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom1.jpg?resize=375,340 375w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom1.jpg?resize=199,180 199w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom1.jpg?resize=50,45 50w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/05\/mom1.jpg?resize=600,544 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 384px) 100vw, 384px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Thank you Facebook for connecting me every day with the trivial, the sweet, the important and the fun. On Mothers Day, you offered us all yet another forum for the expression of love and gratitude for the mothers in our lives.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Like what you read?<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/register\/\">Sign up<\/a> <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">for our free newsletter so you can be informed of the latest FREE <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/events\/\">webinars &amp; teleclasses,<\/a> <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">parenting articles, &amp; weekly raffles.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-16243\" title=\"Mina-McKiernan-1024x1005\" src=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2013\/01\/Mina-McKiernan-1024x1005-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"96\" height=\"96\" \/><em>Prior to becoming a stay at home mom, Mina was an HR Recruiter for years. Now her time is spent happily juggling the demands of two young daughters while trying to expose them to the endless adventures the city has to offer.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>The views and opinions expressed on this blog are purely the blog contributor\u2019s. Any product claim, statistic, quote or other representation about a product or service should be verified with the manufacturer or provider. Writers may have conflicts of interest, and their opinions are their own.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have no problem admitting that I\u2019m a huge fan (and addict) of Facebook. I often post my status, and upload pictures. Yes, I admit it, I absolutely love checking in daily (ok, multiple times a day). 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