{"id":27465,"date":"2018-08-20T06:00:58","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T11:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/?p=27465"},"modified":"2020-05-22T11:18:41","modified_gmt":"2020-05-22T16:18:41","slug":"what-is-a-nanny-share","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/what-is-a-nanny-share\/","title":{"rendered":"What Exactly Is a Nanny Share, and Is It Right for Your Family?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27469 size-full\" title=\"nanny with children\" src=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg\" alt=\"nanny with children\" width=\"700\" height=\"466\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg 700w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg?resize=375,250 375w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg?resize=240,160 240w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg?resize=50,33 50w, https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg?resize=600,399 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As a parent, one of the most important decisions you\u2019ll have to make is\u00a0the one that determines who will care for your child when you can\u2019t. For most, that means the decision between nannies and daycare while mom and dad are at work, but, in recent years, there has been a new trend on the rise.<\/p>\n<p>Nanny sharing is described as when \u201ctwo or more families employ one nanny, sharing the cost of her salary,\u201d according to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.care.com\/c\/stories\/2924\/is-a-nanny-share-right-for-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Care.com<\/a>. Essentially, families agree to \u201cshare\u201d a nanny at a reduced cost per family (in comparison with daycare or a full-time nanny), which\u00a0creates an attractive savings benefit. While it may sound simple, there are several things to consider before deciding whether or not a nanny share is right for you.<\/p>\n<p>For starters, it isn\u2019t as simple as divvying up time among households. Nanny sharing usually entails children of multiple households all being cared for under one roof. In other words, your child would likely spend a week at one house or a week at another, moving around based on whatever schedule the families had decided upon. However, this is not an unpredictable schedule, rather this shows how it differs from a traditional nanny service.<\/p>\n<p>There are a multitude of pros and cons associated with nanny sharing options. Here is a look at some of the top benefits and drawbacks to participating in a nanny share.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Benefits of Nanny Shares:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3>1.\u00a0The Financial Aspect<\/h3>\n<p>The first, and most obvious, benefit is the financial break most families experience when compared to more traditional nanny or daycare options.\u00a0Since\u00a0the cost of the nanny\u2019s salary is shared across two or more families, the financial burden one family bears is usually significantly lower than any other child care options.<\/p>\n<p>In fact\u00a0the cost is usually the same as or less than public daycare,\u00a0but with the attention of a personal nanny.\u00a0\u00a0It\u2019s also reportedly a huge benefit for nannies because it allows them to charge a higher salary than normal due to watching more children.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Read Next | <a href=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/dont-make-these-silly-mistakes-with-your-nanny\/\">Don\u2019t Make These Silly Mistakes with Your Nanny <\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>2. The Individual Attention<\/h3>\n<p>Another \u201cplus\u201d is the greater amount of one-on-one time your child will receive. While it isn\u2019t as much as a traditional nanny would be able to give, nanny sharing provides a more intimate environment than daycare centers,\u00a0which frees up the amount of attention your child gets every day.<\/p>\n<h3>3. The Socialization Aspect<\/h3>\n<p>One of the biggest bonuses parents say they love about daycares is the socialization aspect \u2013 something that is usually lost with traditional nanny experiences. But with nanny shares, it\u2019s like getting the best of both worlds: your child will get more individual attention than at a daycare center, but with the benefits of socialization with the other kids involved in the nanny share with your family.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Nanny Share Considerations:<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3>1. Compatibility\u00a0Between\u00a0Families<\/h3>\n<p>The most difficult aspect\u00a0to maneuver with nanny sharing\u00a0is the struggle to find families to \u201cshare\u201d with who are compatible with your family and schedules. Because there are so many different routines at play (not to mention personalities and parenting methods), it can be a bit difficult to find another family who is similar enough to work within a nanny share.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve found a good match otherwise, you may\u00a0need to be willing\u00a0to be flexible\u00a0on some of your parenting rules, since\u00a0your\u00a0nanny will be caring for other children at the same time.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Scheduling Vacations<\/h3>\n<p>While it may not be something you would normally consider when thinking of child care, with a nanny share, you need to be able to coordinate vacations across multiple families \u2013 which can\u00a0(understandably) be quite tricky. Not only for your own family vacation, but also for the sake of the other families (so no one is left to pay\u00a0for\u00a0a full week solo). AND\u00a0for the sake of the nanny\u00a0&#8211;\u00a0working out who watches the kids when the nanny wants time off.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Read Next | <a href=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/5-nanny-job-benefits-consider-hiring-nanny\/\">5 Nanny Job Benefits to Consider When Hiring a Nanny <\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>3. Being in Other Homes<\/h3>\n<p>If you are against child care options like a daycare setting because you\u2019d prefer your child be in your home rather than another facility, then nanny shares might not be for you. Even though you essentially have a nanny, there\u2019s a fairly high chance your child won\u2019t be in your home for hours or even full days.<\/p>\n<p>Nanny shares usually work by the nanny dividing her time among the homes of the families involved \u2013 so your child will likely spend a lot of time in someone else\u2019s home.<\/p>\n<p>Overall, nanny sharing can be an amazing option for families who find themselves struggling to decide between the high cost of a live-in nanny\u00a0or\u00a0the lower personal attention of a public daycare center. Nanny sharing can be highly financially appealing and can also offer your child a supervised socialization option that allows them to grow up with other sibling-like children. But as with everything in parenting, it all boils down to what\u2019s right for your own family.<\/p>\n<p>Be certain that you weigh your options thoroughly and get to know the other families you\u2019re considering entering a nanny share with before opening a contract. Ask lots of questions and do your research, but know that for many, it\u2019s a fantastic alternate option for many families.<\/p>\n<p>If you think that nanny sharing may be right for you, the Mommybites Nanny Share board\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/find-a-nanny-share\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">helps connect you to other New York families<\/a> in your area looking to start a nanny share.\u00a0Already have a nanny, but need a family interested in sharing a nanny?\u00a0Post a <a href=\"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/child-care\/nyc-daycare-coronavirus-find-a-babysitter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">nanny share<\/a>.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em><strong>Jamie<\/strong>\u00a0is a married mother of four \u2013 two girls and two boys \u2013 ages 3 to 22. With 19 years between her oldest and youngest, she writes to keep her sanity in check with a healthy dose of therapeutic humor injected for good measure. She is a children\u2019s book author and full-time mommy blogger for her site,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mommafuel.wordpress.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Momma Juice<\/a>\u00a0and regularly guest blogs for other sites.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Like what you read? 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For most, that means the decision between nannies and daycare while mom and dad are at work, but, in recent years, there has been a new trend on the rise.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3360,"featured_media":27469,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"schneps_byline":"","schneps_post_style":"","schneps_post_source":"","schneps_syndicated_read_more":"","schneps_post_source_sitename":"","schneps_post_source_shortname":"","schneps_post_source_url":"","schneps_post_source_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[66,51,45],"tags":[48],"class_list":["post-27465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nanny","category-dads","category-moms","tag-childcare"],"acf":[],"parsely":{"version":"1.1.0","canonical_url":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/what-is-a-nanny-share\/","smart_links":{"inbound":0,"outbound":0},"traffic_boost_suggestions_count":0,"meta":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","headline":"What Exactly Is a Nanny Share, and Is It Right for Your Family?","url":"http:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/what-is-a-nanny-share\/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"http:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/what-is-a-nanny-share\/"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg?w=150&h=150&crop=1","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg"},"articleSection":"Nanny","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Jamie Kreps"}],"creator":["Jamie Kreps"],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Mommybites New York","logo":""},"keywords":["childcare"],"dateCreated":"2018-08-20T11:00:58Z","datePublished":"2018-08-20T11:00:58Z","dateModified":"2020-05-22T16:18:41Z"},"rendered":"<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"wp-parsely-metadata\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@type\":\"NewsArticle\",\"headline\":\"What Exactly Is a Nanny Share, and Is It Right for Your Family?\",\"url\":\"http:\\\/\\\/mommybites.com\\\/newyork\\\/what-is-a-nanny-share\\\/\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/mommybites.com\\\/newyork\\\/what-is-a-nanny-share\\\/\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/mommybites.com\\\/newyork\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/sites\\\/2\\\/2018\\\/08\\\/nanny-share.jpg?w=150&h=150&crop=1\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/mommybites.com\\\/newyork\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/sites\\\/2\\\/2018\\\/08\\\/nanny-share.jpg\"},\"articleSection\":\"Nanny\",\"author\":[{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"name\":\"Jamie Kreps\"}],\"creator\":[\"Jamie Kreps\"],\"publisher\":{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"name\":\"Mommybites New York\",\"logo\":\"\"},\"keywords\":[\"childcare\"],\"dateCreated\":\"2018-08-20T11:00:58Z\",\"datePublished\":\"2018-08-20T11:00:58Z\",\"dateModified\":\"2020-05-22T16:18:41Z\"}<\/script>","tracker_url":"https:\/\/cdn.parsely.com\/keys\/mommybites.com\/p.js"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/08\/nanny-share.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27465"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3360"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27465"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27465\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27469"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mommybites.com\/newyork\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}