What questions should I ask at my 2-year-old well visit?

You asked and you shall now receive. It’s only fair for us to share all of this stored up knowledge about a toddlers and what happens when they start toddling (and talking)! We now will answer, in a very public forum, all of those burning questions about children in their second year. Each Wednesday, we will tackle a commonly-asked-question from the point of view of a parent with a toddler. Chiming in to give her feedback will be an expert who has been there and done that. Earmark, share and add your own input to today’s question; it’s good karma.

What questions should I ask at my 2-year-old well visit?

Toddlers grow in many ways so when you go into his well visit here are some areas to discuss:

First and foremost ask about any health concerns. Mention the things you notice about your toddler so the pediatrician can get a more accurate picture of what you are seeing at home. This needs to include your impressions of your toddler socially, emotionally and physically. If you are worried about something raise it no matter how small or silly you think it sounds. This information helps a doctor get a fuller picture of your child.

Ask your doctor to explain some of the next major milestones that will be coming up for your toddler and ways to support his health physically and emotionally along the way.

If you have a long list ask the Dr if she would prefer to have you email some of them ahead of time so she can be prepared to answer all of your questions especially since your two year old may not want to be in the room for any lengthy discussions.

About our expert-

Marsha Greenberg is a therapist in New York City. She is the author of the newly released book, Raising Your Toddler, by Globe Pequot Press. She has masters degrees in Child and Family Development and Social Work from the University of Michigan. As the Director of the Health Systems Child Care Program for over 14 years, she was responsible for over 250 children between the ages of 6 weeks and 6 years of age. Marsha teaches in the Early Childhood Special Education department at NYU and has a private psychotherapy practice in NYC. Marsha is the mother of three grown sons and has three grandsons (aged 4 and 18 months and 4 months) with a new grandchild on the way.